Fitting In Versus Belonging
At a Glance
Language
English — USSubject
- English & Language Arts
Grade
7–8Duration
One 50-min class period- Culture & Identity
Overview
About This Lesson
Humans have evolved to seek out belonging in groups that provide us with acceptance, support, and a sense of identity. This deep desire to belong may lead us to feel as if we need to sacrifice one or more of our values in order to fit in. This tension between our desire to fit in and our need to express our own individual identity can feel especially challenging for young people, who may be navigating a new school, shifts in peer groups, and increasing responsibilities at home and in their communities.
In this lesson, students will listen to an excerpt from a podcast and read a short personal narrative in order to consider the difference between fitting in and belonging, as well as the ways in which our desire to seek approval can result in us camouflaging who we really are and want to be.
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